Fall Thankful LeavesI remember looking down at my newborn baby thinking he can do no wrong…then he turned three. If you ever want to see purely selfish behavior hang out with toddlers. These little humans are born wanting their way and as parents it’s our job to teach and train them in an attitude of gratitude. Believe me it doesn’t come naturally.

This holiday season I wanted to be more intentional about demonstrating and creating opportunities to show thankfulness to Little Man everyday. It felt like a daunting task at first…EVERYDAY? Who was I kidding? I can barely remember to brush my teeth everyday (don’t judge!). Thankfully (see I’m being thankful already) I was given some cardstock with leaves outlined on them which gave me an idea. At dinnertime we could write down one thing we were thankful for that day. Not revolutionary I know but simple is best with little ones. Little Man loved to cut with his new scissors so I let him help me cut out the leaves and explained what we would be doing with them every night.

The first night we went around the dinner table saying what we were thankful for and all Little Man could come up with was “Leaves”. The next night we ordered pizza so he was thankful for “pizza and plates”. Many more nights followed and the answers included bread, planes, toys, pasta, Dada, Momma, and his little brother Punkin. Nothing earth shattering but then again what did I expect from a three year old? The good news is that my fear of forgetting to show thankfulness every night through these leaves was quickly dispelled. Once it became a routine Little Man starting reminding me!

I was given another opportunity to show gratitude last week. Our MOPS group was compiling shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child. I normally would have compiled the items myself but with this new focus I decided to see if I could get Little Man’s interest piqued. I announced we were going to the store to buy presents for a little boy who didn’t have any toys. The look on his face was priceless. “NO TOYS?” I had finally hit him where his heart was. He couldn’t imagine not having any toys and he had no problem picking out items for the shoebox. He even told Dada that night at dinner how he had bought presents for a little boy who didn’t have any toys (said with a look of unbelief). It was such fun to see him get excited about putting the box together. He wanted to know about this boy that would get our box. Where does he live? What’s his name? Granted, I couldn’t answer them but OCC allows me to track the box. Upon delivery I will receive an email letting me know what country my box ended up in. We even put a photo of our family, our address and a note inside for this boy.

So it turns out I just had to find the area that hit home for Little Man, and that home included toys.

How do you teach your kids about thankfulness?

 

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Kate Wilkinson is a wife to an amazing man who loves to cook (yes she knows she’s lucky!) and is blessed to be a stay at home mom to her two very active boys, Little Man and Punkin. Come join her adventure to maintain sanity while she juggles a VERY energetic toddler, housework that never seems to end, and the occasional date night that isn’t thwarted by falling asleep in the movie theatre. When mommy brain allows Kate blogs at RetroModernMom.com about family, faith and the funny things in between. It may be hard living in LA but she’s a modern mom doing it the old-fashioned way.

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2 Responses to Trying to turn selfishness into selflessness (or at least thankfulness)

  1. Stacy says:

    This is fabulous, Kate! We were just talking about selflessness in marriage at our small group tonight, but this was a great reminder of how important it is to teach to our kids! Loved the leaf idea :-)

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